Showing posts with label social skills. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social skills. Show all posts

Friday, November 4, 2011

Social Skills Playhouse Lead Social Coach Scott Nipper to present at the ADDA-SR NW Houston Chapter Meeting

Topic:        Smart but Scattered
This presentation will offer a practical and parent friendly approach to teaching executive skills. Scott will share from a personal and professional perspective the vital importance of learning executive functioning skills.

Speaker:   Scott Nipper
Scott has almost 2 decades of professional experience in special needs as a teacher and behavior analyst.  He studied autism intervention in graduate school and specialized in Aspergers Syndrome.  His knowledge of dyslexia and ADHD is much more personal as a learner.    

Time:          November 8, 2011, 7:00-8:30 pm (2nd Tuesday)

Place:        Foundry United Methodist Church
                        8350 Jones Road, room to be announced, look for signs

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Week 8 Social Skills Playhouse, Executive Function: A new lens for viewing your child

By Kristin Stanberry

As each of us goes about daily life, numerous mental processes and skills help us plan for — and respond to — the tasks, challenges, and opportunities we face. Researchers and psychologists have coined the term executive function to describe this constellation of cognitive controls. The dynamics of executive function affect every one of us — young and old, as well as those with and without disabilities. It influences our performance at school, on the job, our emotional responses, personal relationships, and social skills. Yet executive function plays itself out a little differently in each of us; each individual is uniquely strong or competent in some cognitive control areas and weaker in others.
Executive function is a theory developed over the past 20 years. Interest in the theory — and discussion of it — is on the upswing among professionals who treat people with cognitive disabilities, including those with learning disabilities (LD), and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (AD/HD).
The theory of executive function is not an exact science, nor is it a standard diagnostic category. Even so, it can provide a framework in which parents and professionals can understand a child's level of cognitive ability. When a child struggles with learning, attention, or behavior problems, the concept of executive function can help us sort through and pinpoint where the breakdowns occur in the context of her overall functioning. It may also help highlight a child's areas of strength and talent. Finally, it may help us determine how to support the child's growth and development in areas of struggle.
How do experts define executive function?
While definitions of executive function vary slightly, and the concept is still evolving, there is some consensus among researchers, psychologists, and other experts. Sheldon H. Horowitz, Ed.D, director of professional services at the National Center for Learning Disabilities (NCLD), offers a description that reflects the views of many experts: "Executive functioning involves activating, orchestrating, monitoring, evaluating, and adapting different strategies to accomplish different tasks.... It requires the ability to analyze situations, plan and take action, focus and maintain attention, and adjust actions as needed to get the job done." Executive function is often compared to the conductor of a symphony orchestra, coordinating and managing many cognitive functions. For kids with LD and/or AD/HD, the interaction of cognitive functions may not always produce a harmonious result.
What abilities are involved in executive function?
Thomas Brown, Ph.D., assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at the Yale University School of Medicine and associate director of the Yale Clinic for Attention and Related Disorders, has proposed a model that includes six clusters of cognitive functions involved in executive function. The following table illustrates Dr. Brown's model (terms used by other experts are shown in italics).
 

Cognitive cluster
Executive functions
Activation
Organizing, prioritizing, and activating to workInitiating, planning, strategizing, and sequencing
Focus
Focusing, sustaining, and shifting attention to tasks
Effort
Regulating alertness, sustaining, and processing speedPacing, managing time, and resisting distraction
 
Emotion
Managing frustration and regulating emotions
Memory
Utilizing working memory and accessing recallUsing feedback
Action
Monitoring and self-regulating actionInhibiting

"Each cluster operates in rapidly shifting interactive dynamics to do a wide variety of daily tasks that require self-regulation by using attention and memory to guide one's action rather than being micro-managed by someone else," explains Dr. Brown.
How does executive functioning work (or not work) in kids with learning or attention problems?
To better understand how various executive functions play out in a child's daily life, let's examine some common childhood tasks and situations. The tables below list some of the executive functions required in specific situations* — and what difficulties result when the necessary executive functions are dysfunctional.

Reading comprehension
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Working memory and accessing recall
When she reaches the end of a chapter, she's forgotten key points she picked up (and understood) while reading.
Regulating alertness
When reading a long passage, she can't stay alert and attentive; she has low stamina when it comes to reading.

Regulating processing speed
She reads in fits and starts; she can't find a rhythm in her reading pattern.



Writing
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Activating (starting)
She doesn't know how to begin a writing project.
Organizing
She has no idea how to outline an essay or report.
Prioritizing
She writes too much about things that are of minor importance to the story.
Sequencing
She presents facts/ideas in a disorganized, illogical order.



Taking tests
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Focusing
She is easily distracted and can't stay focused on the instructions or the test questions.
Strategizing
She can't develop an appropriate plan of attack by skimming the test and instructions before taking the test..
Working memory/ accessing recall
When trying to answer test questions, she has trouble remembering information she's previously learned. She struggles to hold onto and mentally manipulate related facts/concepts to answer test questions.
Pacing
She spends too much time on some questions and rushes through others. She may not efficiently budget the time that's allocated.



Long-term projects
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction 
Organizing
She can't determine the steps for the project (or their sequence). She has trouble collecting resources and often misplaces what she does find. She struggles to put the pieces of the project together in an orderly or logical way.
Managing time
She doesn't set realistic task milestones to work through the project from start to finish.
Self-regulation
She fails to monitor her progress.



Shifting between tasks
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Shifting attention
She can't "let go" of a task to attend to another project when instructed to. She gets "stuck" on a task or favorite pastime and can't move her focus elsewhere when required.
Managing frustration
She becomes angry or frustrated when she feels forced to switch gears.



Playing a game with a group of her peers
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Self-regulation
She has a hard time waiting her turn and working cooperatively.
Managing frustration
When frustrated with her peers, she may act out before trying to understand and manage the perceived conflict internally and/or through calm communication.

* Note: The scenarios described above are examples but do not represent a complete list.
Are there tests that measure a child's strength and weakness in executive function?
There is some debate about this, but Dr. Brown states: "A person's ability to perform the complex, self-managed tasks of everyday life provides a much better measure of his or her executive functioning than can neuropsychological tests."
There is also a debate about whether or not an individual's executive function profile can be used, in and of itself, to help identify LD or diagnose AD/HD. It is not standard practice at this time.
How can you use the executive function framework to understand your child's strengths and struggles?
As a parent, you may find the framework of executive function helpful for identifying not only your child's area(s) of difficulty but also her strengths and talents. By organizing and teasing apart that information, her unique "executive function profile" may emerge. This will help you determine where she needs extra help, and where her strengths might help compensate for her areas of struggle.
This perspective may also help you communicate your concerns and observations to teachers and other professionals. This may, in turn, help educators determine what accommodations or interventions might target her areas of difficulty, perhaps by playing to some of her strengths. (Note: Many teachers are not familiar with the concept of executive function. However, your school psychologists may be familiar with the theory because neuropsychological testing is used to assess executive function.)
Whether or not your child meets the criteria for LD or AD/HD, understanding her executive function profile — where she struggles, where she succeeds, and how those abilities interact — may be a powerful tool for understanding who she is, and how she learns and functions best. Depending on the age of your child, it may also provide a lens through which she can view herself — a view that will change and develop as she matures.

Kristin Stanberry is a writer and editor specializing in parenting, education, and consumer health/wellness issues. Her areas of expertise include learning disabilities and AD/HD, which she wrote about extensively for Schwab Learning and GreatSchools.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Week 5 Social Skills Playhouse; Linguistic Management

This week's lesson focuses on linguistic, or conversation, management.  For those of you on our parent mailing list, you recently received a series of resources to assist with generalization of this week's conversation management skills. 

For homework this week, we recommend learning and using Michelle Garcia Winner's vocabulary found in the Conversation Rules word document during family meals, in the car and when you witness your child using "the carpool lane" (shares the conversation with others) or "interruption junction" (interrupts during inappropriate times) to shape their linguistic skills.

Declarative vs Imperative Communication is excellent for parents to use as a resource to develop in depth conversations with their children and work on generalizing these skills during parent-child dialogue.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Week 4 Social Skills Playhouse; Observation Skills

This week we are focusing on teaching and understanding how to accurately read non-verbal communication and monitor what our body language communicates to others. Over developed or under developed social radar can either lead to social anxiety or people missing subtle social cues, particularly in regards to micro facial expressions. This latter group is often the target of bullying because they are unable to get their proverbial "foot out of their mouths" and will often "dig their holes deeper".

HOMEWORK:

We recommend having student's watch their favorite Disney drama or cartoon, without the audio, and analyze the non verbals of a particular character and attempt to predict and or create practical hypothesis about their intentions. Using a mirror with younger children to have them practice emotions and family charades are also encouraged.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Social Skills Playhouse Announces New Expanded Fall Schedule...

Due to popular demand, SSP has added two new classes taught by Lead Social Coach Ms Kelly at our CyFair location.  Robin Rettie of Lighthouse Learning and Resource has been kind enough to allow us expanded use of her facility so we are now able to offer this new 6 week class.

Classes begin on Wednesday, October 12th and run through Wednesday November 16th.

                       Wednesday 4:15-5:15 pm (Younger mixed group)
                       Wednesday 5:30-6:30 pm (Older boys group)


These classes are already filling up quickly, so please contact us at info@socialskillsplayhouse.com if you are interested in enrolling your child.




Cy Fair - Kelly Martinez, Lead Social Coach- Lighthouse Learning and Resource
10928 Grant Rd. Houston, TX 77070




P.roblem solving, E.xecutive functioning, O.bservation skills
P.erspective taking, L.inguistic management, E.motion regulation

Tuition:
$210 for our 3 day December Holiday Camp
$500 for each 8 week Winter and Spring 2012 Semesters
Need based scholarships may be available

Monday, September 26, 2011

Week 3 Social Skills Playhouse; Accepting Responsibility

This week’s lesson focuses on accepting responsibility, conflict resolution and "I" statements.  We will be focusing on re framing, or reconstructing, statements so that they are no longer “blaming” statements.  A few examples of what we’ll be doing are:

Blaming statement: "Mom, he hit me!"
Re-constructed: I took his toy and then he got mad and hit me

Blaming statement: "She made me mad!"
Re-constructed: I was frustrated by her screaming and tattle telling

Blaming statement: You hate me!
Re-constructed: I feel sad when you tell me no/don't pay attention to me, etc.

Homework recommendations; try using your phone or a tape recorder to record a blaming statement and then play it back for your children to hear. Next tape a “taking responsibility” statement and play it back to them--hear the difference. For students who are more visual we recommend charting, writing with pictures and/or words the blaming statements and then re-constructing it into "I feel_______ when________ happens".

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Week 2 Social Skills Playhouse; Emotion Regulation

This week we will be focusing on understanding our triggers and corresponding physiological responses by plotting them on our “Feel-o-meters” according to intensity.  We all naturally apply specific coping skills to regulate our responses and most of us only employ one or two.  In this week’s class, we will introduce and practice additional coping strategies. 

We often show low level cues that we are being triggered prior to a meltdown, our job as parents and professionals is to pick up on these cues and educate our children and ourselves as to how best deal with them.

We recommend students self advocate (with prompting at the beginning from an adult) to take safe breaks.  It is important that children are able to find a safe place in the home and the classroom for such breaks.  Interestingly, because it forces one to have controlled breathing, blowing bubbles (yes, the good old-fashioned soap bubbles) is an effective strategy for students young and old.  Other strategies which work are self massage and pressure points, stretching, guided short meditation, swinging, deep breathing and heavy lifting.

These techniques can be used in the traditional classroom as well.  You don’t need to have an IEP or a formal diagnosis for your child to incorporate some of these strategies into their school.  We have found that working with schools and giving ideas, thoughts and suggestions as to what will help fend off a major meltdown is often not only accepted, but embraced.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Social Skills Playhouse enjoys seeing Temple Grandin speak...

What a day!
Joe Whitehead, lead social coach at our Conroe location, and I spent the day at the Sheraton, North Houston listening to Temple Grandin, Ph.D. speak at the “A Journey Through the Autism Spectrum” conference hosted by Spectrum Training Systems Inc. It was an educational (and very entertaining) day, and we both came out of the three 90 minute lectures feeling both drained and energized.
Temple’s talks were broken into three major categories all focusing on different aspects of working with children on the Autism spectrum.  During the first session, both Joe and I were excited to hear Temple speak about so many of the tactics and strategies utilized in Social Skills Playhouse  like group play and working on eye contact as effective techniques to be used with these kids.
In addition to speaking about how Autism manifests itself in children, Temple also spent time focusing on the big picture, long term prognosis for men and women growing up with Autism (usually quite good), looking at how many successful and famous people either have been (or should have been!) diagnosed, and the role that both diet and meds play in both the treatment of Autism. 
Overall it was a fascinating day.  After the talk was over, I recalled that in introducing Temple the opening speaker said, “Grandin is listed in the 2010 Time 100 list of the 100 most influential people in the world in the category “Heroes”.  I (like many of the 400 plus attendees I’m sure) gained a whole new respect for Dr. Grandin today, the humility with which she does, and the passion she brings to, her work; she truly is a hero.
 Bar Clarke

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

CyFair, College Station and Spring Branch-Here we come!

Thank you Robin Rettie M.Ed of Lighthouse Learning and Resource for the fabulous locale and vote of professional confidence. Joe Whitehead M.Ed and Ms. Sharon are ready to educate SSP students at the Southwood Community Center, College Station P.E.O.P.L.E. style. Our New Spring Branch locale will be lead by Scott Nipper BCBA in the teen recreation room at the Clay Road Family YMCA! Our three additional locations offer experiential learning and generalization opportunities galore with easy freeway access, parking, comfy seating, community amenities, a skate park, bike riding, swimming pools and ball fields. I'm reeling with excitement and wonder.