Sunday, November 13, 2011

Week 10 Social Skills Playhouse; Making and Maintaining Friends

Friendship is like a garden of flowers, fine and rare. It cannot reach perfection except through loving care. Then new and lovely blossoms with each day appear...for friendship like a garden, grows in beauty year by year. Anonymous

F.R.I.E.N.D.S
F.riend Files
R.easonable Expectations
I.nterests and Invitations
E.xceptional Behavior
N.on verbal Communication
D.o it- Spiral of Social Success
S.et Realistic Goals

This week\we will be focusing class on assisting you and your children in transitioning their classmates into "friends" via our friend file exercise and contact information exchange. 

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Week 9 Social Skills Playhouse; Perspective Taking

Here we are on our second to last session of the Fall semsester and have evolved to the highest level of our PEOPLE rubric, Perspective taking, the ability to take other's thoughts, ideas and personality into account. The concept of "theory of the mind"

Homework this week...

Observe your child's perspective taking, how has it changed? Do you see them understanding where others are coming from?  How do you "get" other people?

"How do we understand each other? Although we are rarely explicitly aware of it, we utilize notions of invisible, intangible, and yet pragmatically very useful entities such as intentions, desires, beliefs, and knowledge to make human and animal behavior comprehensible and predictable. So automatic are these processes of inferences and attributions that it is not until something goes wrong that their extraordinary characteristics become salient and present themselves to our awareness" Francis F. Steen, Communication Studies, University of California, Los Angeles.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Social Skills Playhouse Lead Social Coach Scott Nipper to present at the ADDA-SR NW Houston Chapter Meeting

Topic:        Smart but Scattered
This presentation will offer a practical and parent friendly approach to teaching executive skills. Scott will share from a personal and professional perspective the vital importance of learning executive functioning skills.

Speaker:   Scott Nipper
Scott has almost 2 decades of professional experience in special needs as a teacher and behavior analyst.  He studied autism intervention in graduate school and specialized in Aspergers Syndrome.  His knowledge of dyslexia and ADHD is much more personal as a learner.    

Time:          November 8, 2011, 7:00-8:30 pm (2nd Tuesday)

Place:        Foundry United Methodist Church
                        8350 Jones Road, room to be announced, look for signs

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Week 8 Social Skills Playhouse, Executive Function: A new lens for viewing your child

By Kristin Stanberry

As each of us goes about daily life, numerous mental processes and skills help us plan for — and respond to — the tasks, challenges, and opportunities we face. Researchers and psychologists have coined the term executive function to describe this constellation of cognitive controls. The dynamics of executive function affect every one of us — young and old, as well as those with and without disabilities. It influences our performance at school, on the job, our emotional responses, personal relationships, and social skills. Yet executive function plays itself out a little differently in each of us; each individual is uniquely strong or competent in some cognitive control areas and weaker in others.
Executive function is a theory developed over the past 20 years. Interest in the theory — and discussion of it — is on the upswing among professionals who treat people with cognitive disabilities, including those with learning disabilities (LD), and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (AD/HD).
The theory of executive function is not an exact science, nor is it a standard diagnostic category. Even so, it can provide a framework in which parents and professionals can understand a child's level of cognitive ability. When a child struggles with learning, attention, or behavior problems, the concept of executive function can help us sort through and pinpoint where the breakdowns occur in the context of her overall functioning. It may also help highlight a child's areas of strength and talent. Finally, it may help us determine how to support the child's growth and development in areas of struggle.
How do experts define executive function?
While definitions of executive function vary slightly, and the concept is still evolving, there is some consensus among researchers, psychologists, and other experts. Sheldon H. Horowitz, Ed.D, director of professional services at the National Center for Learning Disabilities (NCLD), offers a description that reflects the views of many experts: "Executive functioning involves activating, orchestrating, monitoring, evaluating, and adapting different strategies to accomplish different tasks.... It requires the ability to analyze situations, plan and take action, focus and maintain attention, and adjust actions as needed to get the job done." Executive function is often compared to the conductor of a symphony orchestra, coordinating and managing many cognitive functions. For kids with LD and/or AD/HD, the interaction of cognitive functions may not always produce a harmonious result.
What abilities are involved in executive function?
Thomas Brown, Ph.D., assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at the Yale University School of Medicine and associate director of the Yale Clinic for Attention and Related Disorders, has proposed a model that includes six clusters of cognitive functions involved in executive function. The following table illustrates Dr. Brown's model (terms used by other experts are shown in italics).
 

Cognitive cluster
Executive functions
Activation
Organizing, prioritizing, and activating to workInitiating, planning, strategizing, and sequencing
Focus
Focusing, sustaining, and shifting attention to tasks
Effort
Regulating alertness, sustaining, and processing speedPacing, managing time, and resisting distraction
 
Emotion
Managing frustration and regulating emotions
Memory
Utilizing working memory and accessing recallUsing feedback
Action
Monitoring and self-regulating actionInhibiting

"Each cluster operates in rapidly shifting interactive dynamics to do a wide variety of daily tasks that require self-regulation by using attention and memory to guide one's action rather than being micro-managed by someone else," explains Dr. Brown.
How does executive functioning work (or not work) in kids with learning or attention problems?
To better understand how various executive functions play out in a child's daily life, let's examine some common childhood tasks and situations. The tables below list some of the executive functions required in specific situations* — and what difficulties result when the necessary executive functions are dysfunctional.

Reading comprehension
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Working memory and accessing recall
When she reaches the end of a chapter, she's forgotten key points she picked up (and understood) while reading.
Regulating alertness
When reading a long passage, she can't stay alert and attentive; she has low stamina when it comes to reading.

Regulating processing speed
She reads in fits and starts; she can't find a rhythm in her reading pattern.



Writing
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Activating (starting)
She doesn't know how to begin a writing project.
Organizing
She has no idea how to outline an essay or report.
Prioritizing
She writes too much about things that are of minor importance to the story.
Sequencing
She presents facts/ideas in a disorganized, illogical order.



Taking tests
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Focusing
She is easily distracted and can't stay focused on the instructions or the test questions.
Strategizing
She can't develop an appropriate plan of attack by skimming the test and instructions before taking the test..
Working memory/ accessing recall
When trying to answer test questions, she has trouble remembering information she's previously learned. She struggles to hold onto and mentally manipulate related facts/concepts to answer test questions.
Pacing
She spends too much time on some questions and rushes through others. She may not efficiently budget the time that's allocated.



Long-term projects
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction 
Organizing
She can't determine the steps for the project (or their sequence). She has trouble collecting resources and often misplaces what she does find. She struggles to put the pieces of the project together in an orderly or logical way.
Managing time
She doesn't set realistic task milestones to work through the project from start to finish.
Self-regulation
She fails to monitor her progress.



Shifting between tasks
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Shifting attention
She can't "let go" of a task to attend to another project when instructed to. She gets "stuck" on a task or favorite pastime and can't move her focus elsewhere when required.
Managing frustration
She becomes angry or frustrated when she feels forced to switch gears.



Playing a game with a group of her peers
Executive function used
Signs of executive dysfunction
Self-regulation
She has a hard time waiting her turn and working cooperatively.
Managing frustration
When frustrated with her peers, she may act out before trying to understand and manage the perceived conflict internally and/or through calm communication.

* Note: The scenarios described above are examples but do not represent a complete list.
Are there tests that measure a child's strength and weakness in executive function?
There is some debate about this, but Dr. Brown states: "A person's ability to perform the complex, self-managed tasks of everyday life provides a much better measure of his or her executive functioning than can neuropsychological tests."
There is also a debate about whether or not an individual's executive function profile can be used, in and of itself, to help identify LD or diagnose AD/HD. It is not standard practice at this time.
How can you use the executive function framework to understand your child's strengths and struggles?
As a parent, you may find the framework of executive function helpful for identifying not only your child's area(s) of difficulty but also her strengths and talents. By organizing and teasing apart that information, her unique "executive function profile" may emerge. This will help you determine where she needs extra help, and where her strengths might help compensate for her areas of struggle.
This perspective may also help you communicate your concerns and observations to teachers and other professionals. This may, in turn, help educators determine what accommodations or interventions might target her areas of difficulty, perhaps by playing to some of her strengths. (Note: Many teachers are not familiar with the concept of executive function. However, your school psychologists may be familiar with the theory because neuropsychological testing is used to assess executive function.)
Whether or not your child meets the criteria for LD or AD/HD, understanding her executive function profile — where she struggles, where she succeeds, and how those abilities interact — may be a powerful tool for understanding who she is, and how she learns and functions best. Depending on the age of your child, it may also provide a lens through which she can view herself — a view that will change and develop as she matures.

Kristin Stanberry is a writer and editor specializing in parenting, education, and consumer health/wellness issues. Her areas of expertise include learning disabilities and AD/HD, which she wrote about extensively for Schwab Learning and GreatSchools.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Week 5 Social Skills Playhouse; Linguistic Management

This week's lesson focuses on linguistic, or conversation, management.  For those of you on our parent mailing list, you recently received a series of resources to assist with generalization of this week's conversation management skills. 

For homework this week, we recommend learning and using Michelle Garcia Winner's vocabulary found in the Conversation Rules word document during family meals, in the car and when you witness your child using "the carpool lane" (shares the conversation with others) or "interruption junction" (interrupts during inappropriate times) to shape their linguistic skills.

Declarative vs Imperative Communication is excellent for parents to use as a resource to develop in depth conversations with their children and work on generalizing these skills during parent-child dialogue.

Upcoming Social Skills Playhouse Events....

On Thursday, October 13th we are running a SibShop at Graveview Baptist Church, JOY Ministry in Tomball from 6:30-8pm.  This event run by Celeste Osborne M.A., SibShop trained facilitator, is a wonderful opportunity for the siblings of SSP students to get together, share, and learn from each other. The cost is $15.00 and can be paid this Thursday to Celeste.  

Also,  on Saturday, October 15th SSP will be hosting a private workshop at the Games Workshop located at 22503 State Highway 249, Houston, TX 77070  for student's age 7+ years. You can learn more about Games Workshop at http://www.games-workshop.com/.  We are hoping that this outing is the first of many SSP is able to host throughout the year.  For these outings we will find a fun and safe place for students to expand their social horizons for a nominal or free cost.

October 22nd SSP, in conjunction with Trails Less Traveled, is offering, “Equines Assisting in Social Skills”  There are 2 time slots (9:00-10:30am and 10:45am-12:15pm) with each group being limited to 10 children/families.  Cost for this voluntary program is $45 per child/family. Payment can be made online at  http://www.trails-less-traveled.com/ under resources or mail check to: 15 Ranch Creek Way Magnolia TX  77354.  For more information please contact Janet Nicholas @ 713-882-4268 or janet@janetnicholas.com

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Week 4 Social Skills Playhouse; Observation Skills

This week we are focusing on teaching and understanding how to accurately read non-verbal communication and monitor what our body language communicates to others. Over developed or under developed social radar can either lead to social anxiety or people missing subtle social cues, particularly in regards to micro facial expressions. This latter group is often the target of bullying because they are unable to get their proverbial "foot out of their mouths" and will often "dig their holes deeper".

HOMEWORK:

We recommend having student's watch their favorite Disney drama or cartoon, without the audio, and analyze the non verbals of a particular character and attempt to predict and or create practical hypothesis about their intentions. Using a mirror with younger children to have them practice emotions and family charades are also encouraged.